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参考文献
心理学与社会学基础理论
1.Homans, G. C. (1958).Social behavior as exchange. American Journal of Sociology, 63(6), 597-606.
（社会交换理论）
2.Byrne, D. (1971).The attraction paradigm. Academic Press.
（相似吸引模型）
3.Aron, A., & Aron, E. N. (1996).Self and relationship as fundamental in motivation. In Handbook of motivation and cognition (Vol. 3, pp. 37-67). Guilford Press.
（自我扩展理论）
4.Huizinga, J. (1938).Homo Ludens: A study of the play-element in culture. Beacon Press.
（游戏化互动理论）
5.Cohen, S., & Wills, T. A. (1985).Stress, social support, and the buffering hypothesis. Psychological Bulletin, 98(2), 310-357.
（社会支持缓冲模型）
6.Bowlby, J. (1969).Attachment and loss: Vol. 1. Attachment. Basic Books.
（依恋安全基地理论）
7.Heider, F. (1958).The psychology of interpersonal relations. Wiley.
（海德平衡理论）
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认知科学与神经机制
8.Stephens, G. J., Silbert, L. J., & Hasson, U. (2010).Speaker–listener neural coupling underlies successful communication. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 107(32), 14425-14430.
（神经耦合机制）
9.Trivers, R. L. (1971).The evolution of reciprocal altruism. The Quarterly Review of Biology, 46(1), 35-57.
（进化利他主义）
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实验范式与方法论
10.Williams, K. D., Cheung, C. K., & Choi, W. (2000).Cyberostracism: Effects of being ignored over the Internet. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 79(5), 748-762.
（Cyberball社会排斥范式）
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跨学科理论延伸
11.Zurek, W. H. (2009).Quantum Darwinism. Nature Physics, 5(3), 181-188.
（量子达尔文主义）
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扩展阅读建议
- 人际关系量子化模型：参考社会物理学（Pentland, A., 2014.Social Physics: How Good Ideas Spread）
- 道德决策神经机制：Greene, J. D. (2013).Moral tribes: Emotion, reason, and the gap between us and them. Penguin.
- 幽默认知研究：Veatch, T. C. (1998).A theory of humor. Humor, 11(2), 161-216.
