EP35 | 那些我希望能早点知道的道理！好书推荐——《宝贵的人生建议》
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#凯文凯利 #宝贵的人生建议 #个人成长 #生活智慧 #职场生存指南 #认知升级 #自我提升 #英文原版书精读 #播客 播客简介你有没有想过，如果能给20岁的自己打一个电话，你会告诉他什么？本期播客我们要聊的，是一份来自未来的“人生建议”——由《连线》杂志创始主编、科技预言家凯文·凯利（K.K.）在68岁生日时写下的《宝贵的人生建议》（Excellent Advice for Living）。这并不是一本长篇大论的说教，而是他这一生试错、观察、迭代出来的“人生建议”。我从书中的450条箴言里，精选了50条最能击中我、最具操作性的智慧。无论你是在职场中打拼，还是在为生活琐事烦心，这几十分钟的分享，或许就能为你指明下一个重要的选择。建议哪怕只挑选其中一条从今天开始践行，让这些智慧的种子在你的生活中生根发芽。让我们一起在行动中寻找答案。时间轴00:05 开场与主题介绍02:03 作者凯文·凯利 (K.K.) 介绍02:47 正片：精选50条人生建议解读以下是50条建议的原文：Learn how to learn from those you disagree with.Listening well is a superpower... "Is there more?"Always demand a deadline.Don't be afraid to ask a question that may sound stupid.Prototype your life.Forgiveness is not something we do for others; it is a gift to ourselves.Don't measure your life with someone else's ruler.Taking a break is not a sign of weakness but a sign of strength.You don't have to attend every argument you are invited to.You can't reason someone out of a notion that they didn't reason themselves into.When you are anxious because of your to-do list, take comfort in your have-done list.Treating a person to a meal never fails.Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.Movement plus variety equals health.Seriously reflect on everything you find irritating in others to understand yourself.The best way to learn anything is to try to teach what you know.Whenever you have a choice between being right or being kind, be kind.To get to "yes" in a negotiation, truly understand what "yes" means for the other party.Draw to discover what you see. Write to discover what you think.Whenever you can't decide which path to take, pick the one that produces change.Choose not to be outraged today.Habit is far more dependable than inspiration.If you are the smartest person in the room, you are in the wrong room.Demand extraordinary evidence for extraordinary claims.Pros make as many mistakes as amateurs; they’ve just learned how to gracefully recover.Don't be the best. Be the only.To be interesting, be interested.Don't take it personally when someone turns you down.Trust me: There is no "them."Tend to the small things; more people are defeated by blisters than by mountains.Ask for advice to get a partner, not just a critic.To make something great, just redo it, redo it, redo it.Shorten your to-do list by asking: "What is the worst that will happen if this does not get done?"Nothing elevates a person higher than taking responsibility for their mistakes.Obsessing about your customers will take you further than obsessing about the competition.Separate the processes of creating from improving.The more you give to others the more you'll get.Keep showing up. 99% of success is just showing up.Switch your language from "I can't do" to "I don't do."Be more generous than necessary.Anything real begins with the fiction of what could be.When crises strike, don't waste them.You really don't want to be famous.Don't ask to be hired because you need a job; hire because you can solve a problem.Art is in what you leave out.Acquiring experiences will bring you more satisfaction than acquiring things.You are what you do, not what you say.Treat others' nastiness as an illness to cultivate empathy.Experience is overrated; hire for aptitude and attitude.Don't bother fighting the old, just build the new.
