不知道大家有没有这样的经验，好像从小我们的父母老师都在告诉我们只要我们努力学习将来就能找到好工作，将来可以结婚买房过幸福生活。如果你正在朝着这条路去的话，不知道你会不会怀疑这件事的合理性，那么这样的说法几乎完全与现实脱节但是为什么在长辈的眼里却那么合理以及破除了这样的脚本我们要过怎样的生活呢？

今天我将带来这本《the pathless path》来看看，美国小镇做题家是如何破除幸福人生迷思，掌握人生幸福真谛的。

January 8th, 2013 - I’ve written a couple blog posts over the past couple months that I never posted because I deemed them too depressing or emotional. I decided to go ahead with this one because I threw some fun stuff in at the end. If anything, it will give you some insight into what people go through when they get sick. A lot of what I struggle with is really irrational and wouldn’t ever occur to me if I was healthy, but I am learning more every day how to cope with it all. I was ignorant of people suffering before I got sick last year, and I’ve definitely learned a lot. Hopefully I can be there for others in the future that are going through tough things in their life.

For me, these blog posts are a good way to vent and figure out my own thoughts. Generally, I am in good spirits and happy, but every new day is tough to get through. I can’t even really describe the panic that comes over me during moments of doubt and fear, but I’ve realized those are part of the journey. When I come up for air, I realize how great things are, how lucky I am and that things aren’t so bad. I appreciate the friends and family that stick by me when things get ugly. I need all of your help to keep the good times rolling and helping me through those bad moments.”