大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir - 节目列表

【聊了什么The What】 这一期小蓝和一芳请来友台「大波福娃」的酸酸和小苕，一起聊 HBO Max 黑色喜剧《绝望写手 Hacks》：一部从 2021 年播到今年 6 月大结局、拿下 14 座艾美奖的剧集。故事讲的是拉斯维加斯驻场的过气传奇喜剧女演员 Deborah Vance，和一个被行业封杀的 25 岁新人写手 Ava Daniels，如何从针锋相对到成为彼此的创作搭档、伴侣和挚友。我们四个女的从追剧节奏聊起，一路谈到脱口秀创作的真实体验、女性做喜剧要付出的代价、Deborah 与 Ava 之间说不清的关系（老板员工？母女？浪漫爱？），最后落到全剧真正想问的问题：一个创作者要如何被这个世界记住。 This episode Izzy and Yifang brought on Suan and Shao from our sister show DatBeauvoir to talk about the HBO Max dark comedy Hacks, which ran from 2021 to its finale this past June and picked up 14 Emmys along the way. The show follows Deborah Vance, a washed-up legendary comedian doing a residency in Las Vegas, and Ava Daniels, a 25-year-old writer who's been blacklisted by the industry, and how they go from sworn enemies to creative partners, life partners, and each other's closest confidantes. The four of us talk about everything from our binge-watching habits to what it's really like to write stand-up (Suan and Shao both have brilliant sets,) what women in comedy have to sacrifice, and the relationship between Deborah and Ava that defies easy labels (boss and employee? mother and daughter? something closer to romance?) and finally landing on the question the whole show is really asking: how does a creator get remembered by the world? 【本期嘉宾 Our guests:】 * 小苕 (it/its)：一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆 * 酸酸(she/her)：一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖 * Shao (it/its): A potato with Chinese characteristics. Can’t be fried or smashed. * Suan (she/her): A bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste. 【时间轴 The When】 * 00:58 《Hacks》剧集背景：HBO Max 黑色喜剧 * 02:47 我们是怎么看剧的——从两周到"五天速通" * 04:00 五季剧情回顾：从相识、写专场，到深夜秀风波、诉讼边缘、最终和解 * 06:49 酸酸和小苕自己的创作过程与真实经历的对照 * 08:15 剧中喜剧表演是否真的好笑？拆解 Deborah 的经典段子 "fire joke" * 14:25 Deborah 与 Ava 的关系：年龄差、阶级错位、政治立场分歧 * 19:16 全网嗑 CP：Deborah Ava关系与传统言情剧叙事的相似之处 * 21:00 母女关系的影子 * 27:05 女性做喜剧要付出什么代价以及痛苦如何转化成作品 * 33:51 为什么痛苦的段子能让人笑出来：真实与才华的关系 * 41:00 Hacks创作缘起：三位主创的采风故事，Hannah Einbinder怎么可能不是Ava本娃？ * 42:54 配角线：Jimmy、Kayla、Robbie 与好莱坞旧秩序的更迭 * 51:59 Deborah 的谷底重生、MSG座无虚席的梦想和反抗 * 58:00 Deborah 为什么拒绝把段子授权给 AI 公司 * 1:00:00 大结局：短暂的人生与不朽的艺术 * 1:03:00 场外花絮：Jean Smart 和剧中人物的相似艺术人生 * 00:58 Background on Hacks: an HBO Max dark comedy * 02:47 How we each watched the show — from two weeks to a five-day binge * 04:00 Recapping all five seasons: from their first meeting and writing the special, to the late-night show fallout, the near-lawsuit, and the eventual reconciliation * 06:49 酸酸 and 小苕 on how their own creative process compares to the show's * 08:15 Is the stand-up in the show actually funny? Breaking down Deborah's signature "fire joke" * 14:25 Deborah and Ava's relationship: the age gap, the class mismatch, the political divide * 19:16 The internet's shipping obsession — how it echoes traditional romance-drama beats * 21:00 Shades of a mother-daughter dynamic * 27:05 What women in comedy have to give up, and how pain gets turned into material * 33:51 Why painful jokes can still make us laugh: authenticity vs. talent * 41:00 The origins of Hacks: the creators' research process, and how Hannah Einbinder could not have been anyone but Ava * 42:54 The supporting cast — Jimmy, Kayla, Robbie — and the changing of the guard in old Hollywood * 51:59 Deborah's comeback from rock bottom, the dream of a sold-out MSG show, and her refusal to give up * 58:00 Why Deborah turns down licensing her material to an AI company * 1:00:00 The finale: a short life, an immortal art * 1:03:00 Behind the scenes: the parallels between Jean Smart's own career and her character's 【拓展链接 The Links】 * 《大城小妞 Broad City》 * 《心灵奇旅 Soul》 * Hannah gadsby: Nanette 【买咖啡 Please Support Us】 如果喜欢这期节目并愿意想要给我们买杯咖啡： * 海外用户：https://www.patreon.com/cyberpinkfm * 海内用户：https://afdian.com/a/cyberpinkfm * 商务合作邮箱：[email protected] * 商务合作微信：CyberPink2022 If you like our show and want to support us, please consider the following: * Those Abroad: https://www.patreon.com/cyberpinkfm * Those in China: https://afdian.com/a/cyberpinkfm * Business Inquiries Email: [email protected] * Business Inquiries WeChat: CyberPink2022 Support on Patreon | 爱发电上赞助

【聊了什么The What】 这一期，酸酸和小苕作为你的专属纹身保姆，邀请了两位纹身师老朋友，从第一次纹身开始，聊聊那些刻在身体上的选择——最喜欢的纹身是哪一个？如何找到合适的纹身师？什么部位最疼？做了纹身师以后，最大的幻想破灭是什么？什么样的客人是天使，什么样的客人会让纹身师默默深呼吸？这个艺术形式如何改变了我们？或许这期节目能成为犹豫的你给皮肤做出决定的理由！ In this episode, Suan and Shao are your personal tattoo guides, joined by two tattoo artist friends to talk about all the choices we carry on our skin. We chat about our very first tattoos, our all-time favorites, how to find the right artist, which spots hurt the most, and the moments of disillusion after we became tattoo artists ourselves. What makes someone a dream client? What kinds of clients make tattoo artists need a deep breath? How has tattooing changed us, as artists and as people? If you've been on the fence about getting your first tattoo, maybe this episode will give you the push you need to make a decision—for your skin! 【时间轴 The When】 * 2:20 做全职纹身师的契机 * 11:45 第一次纹身的故事 * 16:50 没有纹身的纹身师 * 20:24 纹身师视角的纹身全流程拆解 * 28:30 常见的纹身风格流派和独立纹身师风格 * 40:44 第一次纹身如何做功课 * 45:10 如何和纹身师描述我的需求 * 57:52 平台吐槽大放送 * 01:01:28 疼痛管理与纹身后的护理 * 01:10:31 如何沟通预算和价格 * 01:19:06 压箱底的神人客人故事 * 01:22:40 对新入行的人有什么好的建议 * 01:25:44 做「肤」浅的艺术家 * 01:35:11 自己喜欢的就是最好的 * 2:20 What made us become full-time tattoo artists * 11:45 The stories behind our first tattoos * 16:50 The tattoo artist without tattoos * 20:24 Breaking down the entire tattoo process from an artist's perspective * 28:30 Popular tattoo styles and indie artists * 40:44 How to prepare for your first tattoo * 45:10 How to communicate your tattoo idea to an artist * 57:52 Let’s rant about marketing on social media platforms * 1:01:28 Pain and aftercare * 1:10:31 Talking about budget and pricing with your artist * 1:19:06 Our wildest client stories * 1:22:40 Advice for folks entering the tattoo industry * 1:25:44 Let's be "skin-deep" artists * 01:35:11 The best tattoo is the one you love 【拓展链接 The Links】 * 趴趴亚的Instagram｜小红书 * 腰子（单独昆虫）的Instagram｜小红书 * 小苕（过过过早）的Instagram｜小红书 【我们是谁】 大波福娃是一档居家摸鱼常备的酷儿/女性聊天播客。主播小苕(they/them)是一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆；酸酸(she/her)是一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖。我们臻选神奇话题，用俏皮犀利的洞察，对话身边怒放的生命。我们希望在坚硬的世界里用声音给所有girls, g@ys, and theys搭建一个柔软安全的颅内客厅，邀请你与我们相聚 ;D Dat Beauvoir is a fun and homey queer feminist podcast. Your host Shao (they/them) is a petite potato who serves, and Suan (she/her) is a bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste. We handpick wonderfully weird topics and share our wit and wisdom in conversation with the unique souls around us. Through our voices, we hope to build a warm and fuzzy living room for all the girls, g@ys, and theys—just come and hang with us! ; 本期我们的主播和嘉宾： * 小苕 (it/its)：一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆 * 酸酸(she/her)：一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖 * 趴趴亚 (she/her)：毕业后成功步入稳定职业轨道：全职小胖丫，兼职大码纹身师 * 腰子 (she/they)：一只缓慢生长爬行的虫，但没有在期待长出翅膀 Our hosts and guests: * Shao (it/its): A potato with Chinese characteristics. Can’t be fried or smashed. * Suan (she/her): A bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste. * Papaya (she/her): In a steady career path of full-time fat girlie and part-time plus-size tattoo artist. * Yaozi (she/they): an insect crawling slowly without thinking of the tegmina growing. 本期节目由小苕和酸酸制作，Yanny进行音频编辑。小苕设计封面，Ruby设计logo，跑跑制作音乐。 大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。 This episode was produced by Shao and Suan, edited by Yanny. Cover design by Shao, logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun. Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media. 【支持我们】 如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去： 众筹平台链接： * Patreon https://www.patreon.com/datbeauvoir * 爱发电 https://afdian.net/a/datbeauvoir 合作投稿邮箱：[email protected] Support on Patreon | 爱发电上赞助

【聊了什么The What】 这一期，我们捕捉了两位身在纽约却互不认识的陕西酷儿，相认的瞬间！ 主播小苕认识两位朋友许久，一直想介绍他们认识却苦于没有线下的机会。我们忍不住架起麦克风，紧急策划了这场大型认亲现场！从西安到纽约，从方言到身份认同，从艺术创作到异乡生活，从肉夹馍聊到坟墓——我们为什么离开故乡，故乡究竟有没有离开我们？ In this episode, we capture the moment when two queer folks from Shaanxi—both living in New York but complete strangers to each other—finally meet! Shao has known both of them for some time and has always wanted to introduce them, but never had the chance to get everyone together in person. So we couldn't resist setting up the mics as well as this long-overdue “family reunion”! From Xi'an to New York, from dialects to identity, from artistic practice to immigrant life, from Roujiamo sandwiches to cemeteries—we ask: Why did we leave home? And has home ever really left us? 【时间轴 The When】 * 1:50 想介绍朋友认识的契机 * 3:30 单独前采时间：对方的ins初印象 * 9:55 我究竟算陕西人吗？ * 12:25 平行人生的我会在哪里 * 18:04 单边耳钉，戴左耳还是右耳才是gay？ * 24:50 充满乡愁的酥皮潼关肉夹馍，纽约已经可以买到 * 34:15 山西人给陕西道歉！ * 36:15 如何和美国人解释陕西是哪里 * 38:30 辩论时间！纽约完全就是西安vs纽约完全不是西安 * 41:33 纽约的坟头蹦迪文化 * 47:35 酸酸：我的朋友不敢和我出柜 * 52:07 「儿子，你要解决你的个人问题」 * 1:50 What inspired this long-awaited introduction? * 3:30 Pre-meeting interviews: first impressions from stalking each other's Instagram * 9:55 Am I Shaanxi enough to call myself a Shaanxi person? * 12:25 Where would I be in a parallel universe? * 18:04 Which ear is the gay ear? * 24:50 Where to get the crispy Tongguan-style Roujiamo in New York * 34:15 Shanxi folks have to apologize to Shaanxi * 36:15 How do you explain Shaanxi to Americans? * 38:30 Debate time! "New York is totally Xi'an" vs. "New York is totally NOT Xi'an" * 41:33 New York taught us to party in the cemetery * 47:35 Suan: "My friend didn’t dare to come out to me." * 52:07 "Son, you need to figure out your 'personal issues’” 【我们是谁】 大波福娃是一档居家摸鱼常备的酷儿/女性聊天播客。主播小苕(they/them)是一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆；酸酸(she/her)是一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖。我们臻选神奇话题，用俏皮犀利的洞察，对话身边怒放的生命。我们希望在坚硬的世界里用声音给所有girls, g@ys, and theys搭建一个柔软安全的颅内客厅，邀请你与我们相聚 ;D Dat Beauvoir is a fun and homey queer feminist podcast. Your host Shao (they/them) is a petite potato who serves, and Suan (she/her) is a bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste. We handpick wonderfully weird topics and share our wit and wisdom in conversation with the unique souls around us. Through our voices, we hope to build a warm and fuzzy living room for all the girls, g@ys, and theys—just come and hang with us! ;D 本期我们的主播和嘉宾： * 小苕 (it/its)：一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆 * 酸酸 (she/her)：一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖 * 小卡 (he/him)： 一个不知道自己是什么动物的男的 * 柿子(he/hey)：听石狮子说这颗心是蓝绿色的柿子还没决定是不是时候落地 Our hosts and guests: * Shao (it/its): A potato with Chinese characteristics. Can’t be fried or smashed * Suan (she/her): A bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste * Capy (he/him): someone who can not figure out what animal to identify as * Shizi (he/hey): a sea lion said this turquoise-hearted persimmon hasn’t figured out its mission 本期节目由小苕和酸酸制作，Yanny进行音频编辑。小苕设计封面，Ruby设计logo，跑跑制作音乐。 大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。 This episode was produced by Shao and Suan, edited by Yanny. Cover design by Shao, logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun. Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media. 【支持我们】 如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去： 众筹平台链接： * Patreon https://www.patreon.com/datbeauvoir * 爱发电 https://afdian.net/a/datbeauvoir 合作投稿邮箱：[email protected] Support on Patreon | 爱发电上赞助

【聊了什么The What】 本期酸酸带来她的全新脑洞： 算命的说我35岁有命劫（不只是被优化）——既然可能会死，那不得抓紧写本书！ 今年的4月5号，清明节和复活节在同一天。这一期，我们邀请了两位做书的朋友一起头脑风暴。酸酸在“余命五年”的设定里，下定决心给自己做一本书——从青春到欲望， 从简历到同学录，从死到生。我们从从外公跨越几十年的家书，聊到每个人祭奠亲人的方式——普通人的一生也可以被认真纪念和记录。死期不一定准，但deadline已经有了！ 酸酸：如果我真35岁没了，记得给我的书打五星好评 ;D In this episode, Suan lets her ideas run wild: A fortune teller told me I’d face a life-threatening crisis at 35 (not just getting laid off). If I’m about to die soon, I gotta hurry up and write myself a book! This year, April 5th marks both Easter and Qingming Festival. We invited two friends who work in graphic design and publishing to join us for a brainstorming session. Assuming there are only five years left to live, Suan decides to make a book for herself—one that spans from youth to desires, from resume to yearbook, from death to birth. From Suan’s grandfather’s letters written across decades, we discuss how each of us remembers the people we’ve lost. Any modest life deserves to be carefully documented and commemorated. The date of death may be uncertain—but the deadline is already set! Suan: If I really die at 35, please remember to give my book a five-star review ;D 【时间轴 The When】 * 1:03 算命的说我35岁有一个命劫，是时候做一本人生之书 * 9:05 如何纪念亲人：我和牛祖母一起走出沙漠 * 22:04 简历也是一种自传 * 28:53 知耻近乎勇：外公的忏悔书 * 36:15 病例，看我怎么死 * 37:46 孩子，看我怎么生 * 42:39 想让朋友们给我填同学录 * 45:05 形式的脑洞：排版和装帧 * 53:27 人生之书应该叫什么 * 55:00 项目立项！ * 1:03 A fortune teller said I’d face a life-threatening crisis at 35—it’s time to make my “book of life” * 9:05 Remembering loved ones: my Cow Grandma and I walked out of the desert together * 22:04 Isn’t a resume a kind of autobiography? * 28:53 Knowing shame takes courage: my grandpa’s letter of confession * 36:15 Medical records: how I might die * 37:46 Children: how I might give birth * 42:39 I want my friends to fill out a yearbook for me * 45:05 Wild ideas about forms: typesetting and binding * 53:27 What should this “book of life” be called? * 55:00 Project launch! 【拓展链接 The Links】 * 动画短片《妹妹》宋思琪 * 《暮色将尽》戴安娜·阿西尔 * 《不裁》朱赢椿（设计） * 《清算已毕》波伏瓦 * 《人生不怕从头再来》刘晓庆 * Somewhere Towards the End: A Memoir by Diana Anthill * Stitched Up book design by Zhu Yingchun * All said and done by Simone de Beauvoir * Never Be Afraid to Start Over by Liu Xiaoqing 【我们是谁】 大波福娃是一档居家摸鱼常备的酷儿/女性聊天播客。主播小苕(they/them)是一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆；酸酸(she/her)是一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖。我们臻选神奇话题，用俏皮犀利的洞察，对话身边怒放的生命。我们希望在坚硬的世界里用声音给所有girls, g@ys, and theys搭建一个柔软安全的颅内客厅，邀请你与我们相聚 ;D Dat Beauvoir is a fun and homey queer feminist podcast. Your host Shao (they/them) is a petite potato who serves, and Suan (she/her) is a bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste. We handpick wonderfully weird topics and share our wit and wisdom in conversation with the unique souls around us. Through our voices, we hope to build a warm and fuzzy living room for all the girls, g@ys, and theys—just come and hang with us! ;D 本期我们的主播和嘉宾： * 小苕 (it/its)：一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆 * 酸酸 (she/her)：一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖 * 小麦 (she/her)：每天都在开高速的专注版式设计的平面设计师 * 大炮 (she/her)：看起来鬼点子很多的，专注书籍的数字媒体设计师 Our hosts and guests: * Shao (it/its): A potato with Chinese characteristics. Can’t be fried or smashed * Suan (she/her): A bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste * Xiaomai (she/her): A graphic designer focused on editorial design, speeding down the highway everyday * Dapao (she/her): A digital media designer specializing in books, full of wild ideas 本期节目由小苕和酸酸制作，Yanny进行音频编辑。小苕设计封面，Ruby设计logo，跑跑制作音乐。 大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。 This episode was produced by Shao and Suan, edited by Yanny. Cover design by Shao, logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun. Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media. 【支持我们】 如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去： 众筹平台链接： * Patreon https://www.patreon.com/datbeauvoir * 爱发电 https://afdian.net/a/datbeauvoir 合作投稿邮箱：[email protected] Support on Patreon | 爱发电上赞助

【聊了什么The What】 “如果有一天，你变成了一只蟑螂，你的妈妈还会爱你吗？” 本期嘉宾“英勇三娃妈”宇宙给大家带来了她在北美养育“一猫一狗一孩”的日常冒险。从处理小孩打群架引发的教育焦虑，到觉察自己如何不自觉地把自己对世界的理解与遗憾投射到孩子身上。面对情绪一点就炸的小孩，我们不断学习、摸索并尝试理解传统男性气质中同时并存的愤怒与脆弱。我们也一路脑洞大开：如果在蟑螂的世界里养小孩，卵鞘一甩就是一窝，那我们会不会更早抵达某种理想中的社会？ If one day you turned into a cockroach, would your mom still love you? Our guest, “the heroic mom of three,” Yuzhou, shares her everyday adventures raising a cat, a dog, and a child in North America. We discuss the parenting anxieties sparked by resolving playground fights and start to notice how we unconsciously project our own understandings of the world—and our regrets—onto our children. When faced with a child overwhelmed by big emotions, we talk about the ongoing process of learning, experimenting, and trying to understand how anger and vulnerability coexist within traditional forms of masculinity. Along the way, we also let our imaginations run wild: if we were raising children in the world of cockroaches—where a single egg case can produce a whole brood—might we arrive at some version of a utopia much sooner? 【时间轴 The When】 * 01:28 小苕的故事：你好小豹豹 * 05:50 回顾和妈妈的关系 * 14:14 天塌了，小孩在学校骂N-word * 16:48 养一个指派性别为男的小孩，我们操碎了心 * 23:41 小豹豹缓解了我的育儿焦虑 * 28:17 小孩说些傻话，也是在测试ta和世界交互的边界 * 33:56 孩子犯错，我真的都能接受吗 * 37:35 学会不把我们对社会的创伤从投射到孩子的言行上 * 43:24 管理易怒小孩的心法 * 48:14 爹的愤怒和脆弱一体两面 * 54:40 妈妈，如果我是蟑螂你会爱我吗 * 58:23 小猫和小孩教给我们的一切 * 1:03:58 生了就好好养吧 * 1:06:46 养小孩就像搞冷圈，不要舞到正主面前 * 1:10:47 螂的诱惑 * 01:28 Shao’s story: Hi, Baobao * 05:50 Looking back at my relationship with my mom * 14:14 My kid said the N-word at school * 16:50 The struggle of raising a child assigned male at birth * 23:41 Baobao relieved my parenting anxiety * 28:17 When kids say silly things, they’re also testing the boundaries of the world * 33:56 Can I really accept every mistake my child made? * 37:35 Learning not to project our trauma onto our kids’ behavior * 43:24 Managing an easily angered child * 48:14 Dad, your anger and vulnerability are two sides of the same coin * 54:40 Mom, if I were a cockroach, would you still love me? * 58:23 Everything kittys and kids taught us * 1:04:00 Raise them well if you have already given birth to them * 1:06:46 Raising a child is like being in a niche fandom—keep your fanfics to yourself * 1:12:41 All the world’s a roach 【拓展链接 The Links】 * Scattered Minds: A New Look at the Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder by Gabor Maté * Taking Charge of ADHD: The Complete, Authoritative Guide for Parents by Russell A. Barkley * 青衫Neuro 【我们是谁】 大波福娃是一档居家摸鱼常备的酷儿/女性聊天播客。主播小苕(they/them)是一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆；酸酸(she/her)是一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖。我们臻选神奇话题，用俏皮犀利的洞察，对话身边怒放的生命。我们希望在坚硬的世界里用声音给所有girls, g@ys, and theys搭建一个柔软安全的颅内客厅，邀请你与我们相聚 ;D Dat Beauvoir is a fun and homey queer feminist podcast. Your host Shao (they/them) is a petite potato who serves, and Suan (she/her) is a bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste. We handpick wonderfully weird topics and share our wit and wisdom in conversation with the unique souls around us. Through our voices, we hope to build a warm and fuzzy living room for all the girls, g@ys, and theys—just come and hang with us! ;D 本期我们的主播和嘉宾： * 小苕 (it/its)：一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆 * 酸酸(she/her)：一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖 * 宇宙：育有一猫一狗一八岁娃的同人女律师 * Shao (it/its): A potato with Chinese characteristics. Can’t be fried or smashed. * Suan (she/her): A bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste * Yuzhou (she/her): A lawyer and BL fandom creator, proud mom of a cat, a dog, and an 8-year-old. 本期节目由小苕和酸酸制作，Yanny进行音频编辑。小苕设计封面，Ruby设计logo，跑跑制作音乐。 大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。 This episode was produced by Shao and Suan, edited by Yanny. Cover design by Shao, logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun. Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media. 【支持我们】 如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去： 众筹平台链接： * Patreon https://www.patreon.com/datbeauvoir * 爱发电 https://afdian.net/a/datbeauvoir 合作投稿邮箱：[email protected] Support on Patreon | 爱发电上赞助

【聊了什么The What】 之前聊过了远距离友谊，这期小苕拉来了两位邻居朋友，把话题拉回到TA们一碗汤距离的全酷儿友邻日常！小时候的邻居是父母人际关系的延伸，上学时期的室友是我们人生的过渡。而成年之后，我们终于开始主动选择谁要站在自己的生活的边界线。从国内到北美，从宿舍到公寓，我们讨论喂饭浇花、互相投喂、一起做饭的默契，也聊到一起打牌、看电影、爬山的娱乐时刻。温馨的生活在合作和协商中悄然搭建，希望你在收听的时候也能感受到这种可爱的氛围！ We previously talked about long-distance friendships. In this episode, Shao invited two neighbors to bring the conversation back to their everyday lives as all-queer neighbors living just a bowl of soup away. As children, neighbors were extensions of our parents’ social networks; during school, roommates felt like transitions in our lives; and in adulthood, we finally begin to choose who stands at the boundaries of our own lives. From China to North America, from dorms to apartments, through our every-day exchanges of care, a warm life is quietly built through cooperation and negotiation. We hope to share this warm atmosphere as you listen! 【时间轴 The When】 * 3:31 小时候是如何理解邻居关系 * 9:26 我们的动物邻居故事 * 18:30 上学时期的室友关系 * 29:10 南方人在北美学包饺子 * 35:00 如何分配厨房里的活儿 * 40:42 离家之后重获自由地掼蛋 * 45:33 分享精选抽象视频 * 50:10 爬山局的小插曲 * 55:27 邻居是我们好好生活的底气 * 3:31 How we understood the concept of neighbors as kids * 9:26 Animals as neighbors * 18:30 Roommates back in school * 29:10 Southerners learned to make dumplings in North America * 35:00 How we divided chores in the kitchen * 40:42 Reclaiming card games away from home * 45:33 Sharing TikToks and memes * 50:10 Small conflict during hiking trip * 55:27 Neighbors, the foundation of a good life 【我们是谁】 大波福娃是一档居家摸鱼常备的酷儿/女性聊天播客。主播小苕(they/them)是一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆；酸酸(she/her)是一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖。我们臻选神奇话题，用俏皮犀利的洞察，对话身边怒放的生命。我们希望在坚硬的世界里用声音给所有girls, g@ys, and theys搭建一个柔软安全的颅内客厅，邀请你与我们相聚 ;D Dat Beauvoir is a fun and homey queer feminist podcast. Your host Shao (they/them) is a petite potato who serves, and Suan (she/her) is a bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste. We handpick wonderfully weird topics and share our wit and wisdom in conversation with the unique souls around us. Through our voices, we hope to build a warm and fuzzy living room for all the girls, g@ys, and theys—just come and hang with us! ;D 本期我们的主播和嘉宾： * 小苕 (it/its)：一个擅长端盘子的骄傲土豆 * 酸酸(she/her)：一包先酸后甜的绿色彩虹糖 * 小伯：一只喜欢赖在邻居家不走的伯恩山 * 仙贝：一枚海苔味儿的仙贝 Our hosts and guests: * Shao (it/its): A potato with Chinese characteristics. Can’t be fried or smashed. * Suan (she/her): A bag of zesty green Skittles with the sweetest aftertaste * Bo: A Bernese Mountain Dog who doesn’t want to leave the neighbor’s place * Xianbei: A nori-flavored senbei 本期节目由小苕和酸酸制作，Yanny 进行音频编辑。Ruby 设计封面，跑跑制作音乐。 大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。 This episode was produced by Shao and Suan, edited by Yanny. Logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun. Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media. 【支持我们】 如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去： 众筹平台链接： * Patreon https://www.patreon.com/datbeauvoir * 爱发电 https://afdian.net/a/datbeauvoir 合作投稿邮箱：[email protected] Support on Patreon | 爱发电上赞助

【聊了什么The What】 如果你正在北美受着签证之苦，夜深人静的时候你是否也刷着日本探店vlog、拉美旅游攻略，期待着哪天脱离苦海，四处逍遥？这期小苕邀请了两位分别在英美生活过，如今跑路日本和阿根廷的朋友，聊了聊在当地的生活和思考。我们吐槽了两地的文化糟粕，也聊到日常中的幸福点滴。这份离开的决定需要我们诚实面对自己的直觉和感受，拿出相当的勇气与决心。收听愉快！本期节目为个人经历和感受分享，不构成任何建议，请谨慎参考！ If you're stuck in North America grappling with visa issues, do you also find yourself late at night scrolling through Japanese shop tour vlogs or Latin American travel guides, dreaming of the day you can finally break free and wander the world? In this episode, Xiaotiao invites two friends who have each lived in the UK and the US, but have since “run away” to Japan and Argentina. We chat about life and reflections in those countries, complain about some of the cultural downsides, and also share the small joys of everyday life. Making the decision to leave requires us to be honest with our intuition and feelings—and to muster a good deal of courage and determination. Enjoy the episode! This episode is a personal account of experiences and reflections. It does not constitute any advice. Please proceed with caution! 【时间轴 The When】 4:49 来到阿根廷的契机和生活日常 10:12 初来异乡，命运般的亲切感 23:33 透过剑道近距离观察日本人的价值观 27:03 前后辈的角色扮演，从社团到公司 38:55 女生试图融入日本社会的后果是过年被发配到厨房 47:57 在日本做好外国人，也做一个好外国人 57:54 「Chamuyero」：阿根廷人的满嘴跑火车观察 1:03:26 「各个国家直男的魅力来自于他们厌女的方式」 1:09:47 阿根廷那些破碎的婚姻，流动的家庭，缺失的情感支持 1:28:38 当客观正确的人生选择不再能给我带来幸福感和安全感 1:35:39 寻找人生的例外 1:44:27 回看一润的经历，我学会了什么 1:49:52 花火大会和大自然，我为自己争取的治愈日常 4:49 – The opportunity that brought Jiayue to Argentina and her daily life there 10:12 – A fateful sense of familiarity upon arriving in a foreign land 23:33 – Observing Japanese values up close through Kendo 27:03 – The roles of senior and junior in Japan: from clubs to companies 38:55 – When girls try to fit into Japanese society, they end up being sent to the kitchen during New Year 47:57 – how to do well as a foreigner in Japan, and be a good foreigner as one 57:54 – "Chamuyero": Observations on the sweet-talking Argentinians 1:03:26 – "The charm of straight men from different countries lies in their unique ways of being misogynistic" 1:09:47 – Argentina's broken marriages, fluid families, and lack of emotional support for individuals 1:28:38 – When life choices conforming social norms no longer bring me happiness or a sense of security 1:35:39 – Searching for exceptions in life 1:44:27 – Looking back at my first escape to a foreign country and what I’ve learned 1:49:52 – Fireworks festivals and nature — the healing everyday moments I’ve carved out for myself 【关注我们 Our Socials】 大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir Instagram: 大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir Threads 【我们是谁】 大波福娃是一档出梗下饭的女子脱口秀节目，这里聚集了一群在海外生活的女权主义者，我们通过嬉笑怒骂的方式观察世界，调侃父权。我们希望通过播客的形式鼓励更多的酷儿、女性讲述自己的故事，用笑声对抗禁忌，用幽默消解规训。 Dat Beauvoir is a podcast centered around female and queer joy. Our mission is to challenge outdated stereotypes about feminists and feminism through thoughtful and lighthearted conversations. We hope to empower our listeners to share their stories, own their truth, and channel their rage at the patriarchy into something they can laugh about. Hosted by 小苕 — a member of the Chinese diaspora living abroad—we bring fresh perspectives and unapologetic laughs to every episode. While we don’t take ourselves too seriously, we’re fully committed to delivering stories that're bold, thoughtful, and refreshingly disruptive. 本期我们的主播和嘉宾： 小苕 (it/its)：一颗坡塔头，最近的自我认同为大盘鸡里烂乎乎的入味儿土豆。 佳玥 (she/her)：在布宜诺斯艾利斯夜间舞会出没的老牌剑客，最近开始在二元对立中探索自我和他人疗愈。 馍馍 (she/her)：生活在东京的碳水化物。梦想是成为角落生物里的水龙。 Our hosts and guests: Shao (it/its): A potato with Chinese characteristics. Can’t be fried or smashed. Jiayue (she/her): A seasoned swordswoman often spotted at milongas in Buenos Aires, currently exploring self and collective healing. Momo (she/her): Carbohydrate living in Tokyo, whose dream is to become Tokage in Sumikko Gurashi (Corner Creatures). 本期节目由Zizhu制作，Hazel进行音频编辑。小苕设计封面，Ruby设计logo，跑跑制作音乐。 大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。 This episode was produced by Zizhu, edited by Hazel. Visual design by Shao, logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun. Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media. 【支持我们】 如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去： 众筹平台链接： * Patreon https://www.patreon.com/datbeauvoir * 爱发电 https://afdian.net/a/datbeauvoir 合作投稿邮箱：[email protected] Support on Patreon | 爱发电上赞助

【聊了什么The What】 没有爱情可以，没有朋友绝对不行！在我们和朋友都不断迁徙的情况下，总会面临无数的相遇和分别，本期小苕请来了三位相隔千里的朋友来聊一聊各自的远距离友谊。我们讨论了物理距离带来的挑战与惊喜，分享了那些让友谊继续或者不继续的小技巧，大家收听愉快! Romantic love can be optional, but friendships are essential to our adult life. In a world where both we and our friends are constantly on the move, we have to navigate through moments of separation and reunion. In this episode, Shao invited three friends to discuss their experiences with long-distance friendships. We discuss the challenges and surprises brought by physical distance, and share the little tricks that help friendships continue—or not. 【时间轴 The When】 03:58 写一篇小作文，跟朋友分手 12:51 纹身师与公务员发小：兜兜转转的友谊 18:25 从高中开始每个月交换书信，我学会分享脆弱 24:47 三胞胎一样的宝藏室友 32:25 远距离友谊靠互发搞笑视频维系 39:15 缘定卤鸡腿：食物让我们相聚 45:13 钓螃蟹和打桑葚：那个完全活在当下的朋友 51:20 再熟都一定要好好表达感谢 01:02:51 如何坦诚地结束一段友谊？ 01:23:55 需要远距离朋友在身边的时刻怎么办？ 01:27:30 莫愁前路无知己 03:58 Drafting that message to break up with a friend 12:51 Tattoo artist and her childhood friend: friendship with detours 18:25 Exchanging letters monthly since high school: Learning to share vulnerability 24:47 My roommates and I are like triplets 32:25 Pebbling with memes and TikTok videos 39:15 Bonded over braised chicken legs: Food brings us together 45:13 That friend who lives completely in the moment 51:20 Appreciation matters 01:02:51 How to end a (long-distance) friendship 01:23:55 What do you do when you need your long-distance friend by your side? 01:27:30 “Fear not the road ahead without a friend” 【拓展链接 The Links】 小红书：陈土豆 【关注我们 Our Socials】 大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir Instagram: 大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir Threads 【我们是谁 Who We Are】 大波福娃是一档出梗下饭的女子脱口秀节目，这里聚集了一群在海外生活的女权主义者，我们通过嬉笑怒骂的方式观察世界，调侃父权。我们希望通过播客的形式鼓励更多的酷儿、女性讲述自己的故事，用笑声对抗禁忌，用幽默消解规训。 Dat Beauvoir is a podcast centered around female and queer joy. Our mission is to challenge outdated stereotypes about feminists and feminism through thoughtful and lighthearted conversations. We hope to empower our listeners to share their stories, own their truth, and channel their rage at the patriarchy into something they can laugh about. 本期我们的主播和嘉宾： 小苕 (it/its)：一颗坡塔头，最近的自我认同为东北大饭包里的土豆泥。 酸酸 (she/her)：指一开始品尝的味道，酸味过去之后会随机变甜或变辣，good luck 咚咚 (she/they)：如果需要跟她闲聊超过半小时电话请提前预约，谢谢合作 腰子 (she/they)：一只缓慢生长爬行的虫，但没有在期待长出翅膀 Our hosts and guests: Shao (it/its): A potato with Chinese characteristics. Can’t be fried or smashed. Sour (she/her): refers to the taste at the beginning. After the sour taste passes, it will randomly become sweet or spicy. Good luck! Dongdong (she/they): for chats over 30 mins, please book ahead. Thanks for your cooperation. Yaozi (she/they): an insect crawling slowly without thinking of the tegmina growing. 本期节目由Zizhu制作，Hazel进行音频编辑。小苕设计封面，Ruby设计logo，跑跑制作音乐。 大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。 This episode was produced by Zizhu, edited by Hazel. Visual design by Shao, logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun. Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media. 【支持我们】 如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去： 众筹平台链接： * Patreon * 爱发电 合作投稿邮箱：[email protected] Support on Patreon | 爱发电上赞助

【聊了什么The What】 这一期药师邀请了通过写作来搞笑的小说作者姬械芯，一起聊了聊喜剧、文学、酷儿和女性创作。在骄傲的六月，希望这个酷儿乌托邦可以让你乐起来。 In this episode, Yaoshi invites novelist Ji Xiexin, who uses writing to bring laughter, for a conversation about comedy, literature, queerness, and female creativity. This Pride Month, we hope this queer utopia brings a smile to your face. 【时间轴 The When】 02:17 为什么酷儿文学非得苦大仇深，我就想看点开心的 05:43 拉拉准备约会时都有什么内心活动 07:38 每个人都想改造约会软件，这款有什么不一样 09:30 拉拉约会仿佛卖二手家具，问的人多来的人少 14:40 跟富婆逛花鸟市场 20:08 站在国外想象国内的尝试：如果一切都是最好的环境，拉拉的生活会是怎么样 21:24 乌托邦文学是讽刺、逃避还是解脱 23:03 动笔的契机：新闻的寿命太短了，不再追求完美了 29:43 女本位群像的故事其实更贴近我们的日常 33:24 通过男人表现女性力量和通过男人表达女性欲望 38:07 写作是一个赋能的过程，通过写作来定义女性体验 40:09 女性创作者的自我怀疑和内化恐惧 42:05 喜剧是化解痛苦的魔法 ，读《正常故事》 49:15 创作最初那碟醋 02:17 Queer literature does not have to tell stories of suffering. It can be joyful too 05:43 What goes on in a lesbian's mind as she gets ready for a date 07:38 Everyone wants to reinvent dating apps—what’s different about this one 09:30 Lesbian dating feels like selling second-hand furniture: lots of inquiries, few actual meetups 14:40 Shopping with a sugar mommy at the Flower and Bird Market 20:08 Imagining a queer life in China from abroad: if everything were ideal, what would a lesbian life look like? 21:24 Is utopian literature satire, escapism, or a form of liberation? 23:03 Why am I writing: the shelf life of news is too short, and I stopped chasing perfection 29:43 Women-centered stories reflect our everyday life more authentically 33:24 Showing female power through men vs. expressing female desire through men 38:07 Writing is a process of empowerment and a way to define female experience 40:09 Self-doubt and internalized fear among female creators 42:05 Comedy is a magic that transforms pain. Reading A Normal Story together 49:15 The original spark of creativity - a splash of self-curiosity 【拓展链接 The Links】 《都市约会复读机》小说链接：https://read.douban.com/ebook/556878452/ 颜怡颜悦 《正常故事》 病鹤斋《她来劈开这山》 乔安娜《如何抑制女性写作》 【关注我们 Our Socials】 大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir Instagram: 大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir Threads 【我们是谁】 大波福娃是一档出梗下饭的女子脱口秀节目，这里聚集了一群在海外生活的女权主义者，我们通过嬉笑怒骂的方式观察世界，调侃父权。我们希望通过播客的形式鼓励更多的酷儿、女性讲述自己的故事，用笑声对抗禁忌，用幽默消解规训。 Dat Beauvoir is a podcast centered around female and queer joy. Our mission is to challenge outdated stereotypes about feminists and feminism through thoughtful and lighthearted conversations. We hope to empower our listeners to share their stories, own their truth, and channel their rage at the patriarchy into something they can laugh about. 本期我们的主播和嘉宾： 药师：精通家庭妙招一千例，身手灵活，可以倒立和劈叉。 姬械芯：川渝人士，现居纽约，一个人机匠心派作者。微博@姬械芯 Our hosts and guests: YaoShi: Specialized at unpopular life hacks. Will serve you witchy Guangdong soup based on your mood. JiXieXin：Born in Sichuan, based in New York, a sci-fi writer with a craftswoman'heart. 本期节目由Zizhu制作，Hazel进行音频编辑。小苕设计封面，跑跑制作音乐。 大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。 This episode was produced by Zizhu, edited by Hazel. Visual design by Shao, logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun. Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media. 【支持我们】 如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去： 众筹平台链接： * Patreon * 爱发电 合作投稿邮箱：[email protected] Support on Patreon | 爱发电上赞助

【聊了什么The What】 延续“女的为什么要做喜剧“，我们策划了一档新系列「搞笑女说」。当身为女性的她们选择用搞笑的态度对待生活、持续创作、站上舞台，将会有什么样的观察和挑战？这个系列将会持续邀请以幽默作为创作基调的女性讲述自己的创作体验，希望我们可以一起重新定义搞笑，重新拥抱搞笑作为女性特质，看看女的做出的喜剧有什么不一样。 本期药师邀请了来自台湾的单口喜剧人Vickie Wang。从台湾到上海再到纽约，为何没有归属感的小孩更适合做喜剧？女性如何通过单口喜剧霸占空间、挑战男性舒适区？让我们一起聆听Vickie的喜剧态度。 Continuing from our very first episode “Holding Space for Women in Comedy”, we’re launching a new series called Funny Women Talk. What kinds of observations and challenges arise when women choose to approach life with humor, stay creative, and step onto the stage? This ongoing series invites women whose creative expression is rooted in humor to share their experiences. Together, we hope to redefine what it means to be funny, to embrace humor as a feminine trait, and to explore what makes comedy created by women different. In this episode, Yaoshi invites Taiwanese stand-up comedian Vickie Wang. From Taiwan to Shanghai and then to New York, Vickie explores how a lack of belonging can become a surprising strength in comedy writing.How do women use stand-up comedy to claim space, pushing against the comfort zones of men? Let’s hear from Vickie Wang. 【时间轴 The When】 03:00 开始讲单口喜剧是为了写点段子给中国女生出一口气 06:24 Representation matters 要是早点发现女生可以这么好笑就好了 08:25 上海单口喜剧观众的变化 11:16 做单口喜剧是女性霸占空间的方式 14:31 如果你从小到大走到哪里都没有归属感的话，其实很适合做单口喜剧 16:45 现在在参与的喜剧项目：Women’s comedy collective 全女性开放麦和Wang’s World 17:50 在上海参加女性开放麦的经历：我们会不会段子讲出来都差不多啊 22:23 作为女性做单口喜剧困难的地方，听男人讲不好的笑话，安全的问题，线上的攻击 24:00 男性面对女性的幽默感的不适应 26:28 做单口喜剧比做模特开心 28:54 自己在英文里会不会更搞笑？ 31:12 最近尝试了中文单口喜剧 34:13 如果你想开始讲单口喜剧的话... 36:05 最近感到启发的喜剧演员 03:00 I started doing stand-up to speak up for Chinese girls 06:24 Representation matters — "I wish I had known earlier that women could be this funny" 08:25 Changes in Shanghai's stand-up comedy audience 11:16 Stand-up as a way for women to (re)claim space 14:31 If you’ve never felt a sense of belonging growing up, stand-up comedy might actually be perfect for you 16:45 Current comedy projects: Women’s Comedy Collective and Wang’s World 17:50 Experiences at women’s open mics in Shanghai: “Are our jokes going to sound the same?” 22:23 Challenges of doing stand-up as a woman — bad jokes from male comedians, safety issues, online harassment 24:00 How some men struggle to handle women’s sense of humor 26:28 Stand-up comedy brings more joy than modeling ever did 28:54 Am I funnier in English? 31:12 Recently started trying stand-up in Chinese 34:13 Advice for anyone who wants to try stand-up comedy 36:05 Comedians who have inspired me lately 【拓展链接 The Links】 何春蕤 《豪爽女人》 https://m.douban.com/book/subject/1358486/ 推荐的喜剧人 Vir Das @virdas Vidura @vidurabr Robin Tran @robintran04 嘉宾链接 Vickie Wang @vickiefromtaiwan @wangsworldcomedy @womenscomedycollective 【关注我们 Our Socials】 大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir Instagram: 大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir Threads 【我们是谁】 大波福娃是一档出梗下饭的女子脱口秀节目，这里聚集了一群在海外生活的女权主义者，我们通过嬉笑怒骂的方式观察世界，调侃父权。我们希望通过播客的形式鼓励更多的酷儿、女性讲述自己的故事，用笑声对抗禁忌，用幽默消解规训。 Who We Are Dat Beauvoir is a podcast centered around female and queer joy. Our mission is to challenge outdated stereotypes about feminists and feminism through thoughtful and lighthearted conversations. We hope to empower our listeners to share their stories, own their truth, and channel their rage at the patriarchy into something they can laugh about. 本期我们的主播和嘉宾： 药师：精通家庭妙招一千例，身手灵活，可以倒立和劈叉。 Vickie Wang: 来自台湾的作者、翻译、喜剧演员，现居纽约。 Our hosts and guests: Yaoshi: Specialized at unpopular life hacks. Will serve you witchy Guangdong soup based on your mood. Vickie Wang: Taiwanese writer, interpreter, and stand-up comedian. 本期节目由小苕、Zizhu制作，Yinuo进行音频编辑。Ruby 设计封面，跑跑制作音乐。 大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。 This episode was produced by Yaoshi, edited by Yinuo. Logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun. Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media. 【支持我们】 如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去： 众筹平台链接： * Patreon * 爱发电 合作投稿邮箱：[email protected] Support on Patreon | 爱发电上赞助

【聊了什么The What】 这一期药师用直播开麦的形式跟朋友们聊了聊生命中重要的亲密关系——小猫。虽然猫猫每天看似只是在晒太阳，偶尔挑食，有时捣乱，但它却在无言中架起了我们与朋友相聚的桥梁，成为我们漂泊生活中的家的锚点。养猫的过程里猫猫和我们都一起不断地变化着，我们也学会接受多种多样的人猫的关系模式。无论你家中有猫没猫，都希望这期节目能为你带来一丝春天的猫猫能量！🐾 In this episode, we talked about an important intimate relationship in life—cats. While cats may seem to spend their days just sunbathing, being picky eaters, or occasionally causing mischief, they silently build bridges that connect us with friends and anchor our diaspora lives to a sense of home. The journey of raising a cat is one of continuous change, for both the cat and ourselves, teaching us to embrace diverse forms of relationship dynamics. Whether you have a cat or not, we hope this episode brings you a little bit of that springtime feline energy! 🐾 【五月天购票链接】 今年3月29日，五月天成团25周年“回到那一天”演唱会将登陆拉斯维加斯忠实体育场（Allegiant Stadium）。这是五月天北美巡演的唯一一场，请记住，是唯一一场，也是华语歌手在北美开唱的最大规模和最高规格。演出将斥资千万美金打造，从巨型五球华丽舞美，到环场巴士，带你体验原汁原味的五月天魅力。 3月29日这个日子也很特别，是五月天正式成军的纪念日。从七号公园初次登场的那个三月，到拉斯维加斯五万人共享的星空，我们一起坐上时光机，穿越回忆任意门，体验一趟精彩万分的旅程，回到属于你和五月天的那一天。 无论你来自哪个国家，无论你是听着五月天歌长大的老粉，还是刚刚喜欢上他们音乐的新粉，这场演唱会，都不容错过。 请访问iemshowplace.com或Ticketmaster，或点击文案中的链接购票锁定席位： 购票链接：点击这里 VIP套餐还包含专属观赏区、快速通道和限量纪念礼包，值得收藏。 加入五月天，永远不会太迟。 [Copy of Mayday_25th_US+lnfo-01.jpg] 【支持我们】 如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去： 众筹平台链接： * Patreon * 爱发电 合作投稿邮箱：[email protected] 【时间轴 The When】 * 04:35 艾斯姬貘和文森特/阿尔森的故事 * 07:54 烤和刀刀的故事 * 14:57 抽和哈库/塔塔的故事 * 21:25 珍珍和Cookie的故事 * 29:09 Momo和十七的故事 * 36:16 小猫是我最亲密的关系 * 39:52 我是猫干妈，也是Situationship，养它就是为了送走它 * 41:45 生活空间的“适猫化”改造 * 45:00 猫让更多朋友走进我家，让家有了公共空间的属性 * 46:38 猫猫的边界感：小猫也不是随叫随到的！ * 50:17 猫猫和人的需求是动态平衡的 * 52:10 误解和低估小猫的瞬间 * 54:48 小猫让我学会不需要语言就可以表达爱 * 56:33 没有想过猫会不会爱我这件事 * 58:52 我们和小猫的关系也是一种多边关系 * 04:35—The story of Aisjimo and Vincent/Arson * 07:54—The story of Kao and Daodao * 14:57—The story of Chou and Haku/Tata * 21:25—The story of Zhenzhen and Cookie * 29:09—The story of Momo and Shiqi * 36:16—My cat is my most intimate relationship * 39:52—I’m a cat godmother and also in a "situationship"—raising them just to let them go * 41:45—Making living spaces more "cat-friendly" * 45:00—Cats bring more friends into my home, turning it into a shared space * 46:38—Boundaries of cats * 50:17—The dynamic balance between a cat’s needs and a human’s needs * 52:10—Moments of misunderstanding and underestimating cats * 54:48—My cat taught me that love can be expressed without words * 56:33—Never wondered whether my cat loves me or not * 58:52—Our relationship with cats is also a kind of poly relationship 【拓展链接 The Links】 * 越烤越糊 Overcooked｜第十四道：这年头不用表情包都不会聊天了：https://www.xiaoyuzhoufm.com/episode/615f9eeeae1d32c4f86c2620 【关注我们 Our Socials】 大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir Instagram: 大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir Threads 【我们是谁】 大波福娃是一档出梗下饭的中文女子脱口秀节目，这里聚集了一群在海外生活的女权主义者，我们通过嬉笑怒骂的方式观察世界，调侃父权。我们希望通过播客的形式鼓励更多的酷儿、女性讲述自己的故事，用笑声对抗禁忌，用幽默消解规训。 Dat Beauvoir is a Chinese podcast centered around female and queer joy. Our mission is to challenge outdated stereotypes about feminists and feminism through thoughtful and lighthearted conversations. We hope to empower our listeners to share their stories, own their truth, and channel their rage at the patriarchy into something they can laugh about. Hosted by 小苕, 药师 and 蕨菜—members of the Chinese diaspora living abroad—we bring fresh perspectives and unapologetic laughs to every episode. While we don’t take ourselves too seriously, we’re fully committed to delivering stories that're bold, thoughtful, and refreshingly disruptive. 本期我们的主播和嘉宾： 药师（they/them)：精通家庭妙招一千例，身手灵活，可以倒立和劈叉，目前热衷的事业是研发广东北菜。 Our hosts and guests: Yaoshi (they/them): Specialized at unpopular life hacks. Will serve you witchy Guangdong soup based on your mood. 本期节目由药师制作/音频编辑，本期封面由小苕设计，音乐由跑跑制作。猫声来自十七和哈库。 大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。 This episode was produced by Yaoshi, edited by Yaoshi. Logo design by Ruby, cover design by Xiaoshao. Music produced by Runrun. Cat sounds from Shiqi and Haku. Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media. Support on Patreon | 爱发电上赞助

【聊了什么 The What】 你小时候的春节是什么味道的？福娃唠嗑第三期，我们带来一期满载年味与回忆的特别节目。从回顾这一年的成就感，到聊聊东北 I 人的春节日常，广东东北的文化碰撞 - 我们思考了如何设定新年目标，给自己正向反馈，以及怎么找回小时候那个更自信、更敢表达的自己。 另外，我们最近也在探索更多与听众互动的方式！如果你有想听我们聊的话题、想问的问题、或想分享的故事，欢迎在社交媒体或播客平台留言，我们等你来唠！ What did Lunar New Year feel like when you were a kid? In the third episode of Beauvoir chats, we’re bringing you a special edition full of festive vibes and childhood memories. From reflecting on our sense of accomplishment this past year to discussing how “Northeastern introverts” celebrate the holiday—and even diving into the cultural clash between Guangdong and the Northeast—we explore how to set meaningful New Year’s goals, give ourselves positive reinforcement, and rediscover the confidence and self-expression we had as kids. We’re also looking for more ways to engage with our listeners! If there’s a topic you’d like us to discuss, a question you want to ask, or a story you’d love to share, leave us a comment on social media or your favorite podcast platform. We’d love to hear from you! 【时间轴 The When】 01:26 大波福娃的年度报告 07:15 究竟怎么衡量一年中的成就？ 09:31 小苕荷叶蒸鸡得出的人生哲理 13:16 年夜饭非要吃饺子才是中国传统？ 16:45 小时候过年，策划联欢会 18:11 东北I人怎么过春节？ 20:44 联欢会环节：即兴三句半 24:23 年味是啥？在国外如何创造年味 28:22 广东东北 文化交流之 怎么炒青菜？ 30:41 自己写女性主义春联，写了什么？ 32:55 大波福娃的新年愿望 34:29 小时候自己的更自信？找回小时候联欢会的自己 Timestamps: 01:26 Our Annual Recap 07:15 How Do We Measure a Year’s Achievements? 09:31 Life Lessons from Lotus Leaf Steamed Chicken 13:16 Is Dumpling Really a Must-Have for ‘Traditional’ Chinese New Year's Eve Dinner? 16:45 Childhood Memories: Planning a New Year’s Eve Gala 18:11 How Do ‘Northeastern Introverts’ Celebrate Lunar New Year? 20:44 Gala Segment: Improvised “San Ju Ban” (A Traditional Chinese Skit) 24:23 What Does "New Year Spirit" Feel Like? How to Recreate It Abroad 28:22 Guangdong vs. Northeast: The Art of Stir-Frying Greens 30:41 Writing Our Own Feminist Spring Couplets – What Did We Come Up With? 32:55 Our New Year Wishes 34:29 Were We More Confident as Kids? Rediscovering Our Gala-Self 【关注我们 Our Socials】 大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir Instagram: 大波福娃 Dat Beauvoir Threads 【我们是谁】 大波福娃是一档出梗下饭的中文女子脱口秀节目，这里聚集了一群在海外生活的女权主义者，我们通过嬉笑怒骂的方式观察世界，调侃父权。我们希望通过播客的形式鼓励更多的酷儿、女性讲述自己的故事，用笑声对抗禁忌，用幽默消解规训。 Dat Beauvoir is a Chinese podcast centered around female and queer joy. Our mission is to challenge outdated stereotypes about feminists and feminism through thoughtful and lighthearted conversations. We hope to empower our listeners to share their stories, own their truth, and channel their rage at the patriarchy into something they can laugh about. Hosted by 小苕, 药师 and 蕨菜—members of the Chinese diaspora living abroad—we bring fresh perspectives and unapologetic laughs to every episode. While we don’t take ourselves too seriously, we’re fully committed to delivering stories that're bold, thoughtful, and refreshingly disruptive. 本期我们的主播和嘉宾： 小苕 (it/its)：一颗泛薯类，最近的自我认同是夜市上的旋风大土豆 蕨菜 (it/its)：长白山区野生蕨菜，喜生于浅山区向阳地 药师（they/them)：精通家庭妙招一千例，身手灵活，可以倒立和劈叉，目前热衷的事业是研发广东北菜。 Our hosts and guests: Shao (it/its): A potato with Chinese characteristics. Can’t be fried or smashed. Fern (it/its): A baby fern, grows along rivers or in mountains. Huang Yaoshi (they/them): The Eastern Heretic who aims to be self-sufficient in everything. 本期节目由蕨菜制作，Hazel进行音频编辑。Ruby 设计封面，跑跑制作音乐。 大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。 This episode was produced by Fern, edited by Hazel. Logo design by Ruby. Music produced by Runrun. Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media. 【支持我们】 如果喜欢这期节目并希望支持我们将节目继续做下去： 众筹平台链接： * Patreon * 爱发电 合作投稿邮箱：[email protected] Support on Patreon | 爱发电上赞助