bgm：自作多情-周慧敏

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今天讨论俩话题：1.关于我儒雅谦和的大学语文老师在谈论《好东西》时候露出的自大保守让我对性别平等的未来感到担忧 2.昨天勇敢与歪果仁搭讪后我的所思所感

The first one is about one Chinese class

水课老师善于伪装 总会让人以为他真的会讲什么有用的东西

I have been cheated thousands of times from him but next time if you ask me I was still diving into his world because he's really good at disguising himself and this thousand of time that at first I almost thought he was really going to talk about something useful but and at last I find it is bullshit and I cannot learn from him.

pretend himself that he'really modest his'really gentle but as then I find he's quite arrogant.

男老师观影后的强烈不适感the teacher said he had watched this movie with his wife and he he said in this movie he found something really uncomfortable 

我非常理解男性观影后的复杂心情 因为他们对这类叙事感到无所适从I totally understand that you know men will feel really uncomfortable about this movie

无法共情无法理解 只看到不完美的角色 误以为是抹黑 误以为是挑起性别对立They can never touch with our girls 

just think we'are doing something bad for them we'are showing some were depicting or exaggerating some bad image of a man and it's not fair 

男老师认为电影在挑起性别对立 同时也狡猾地抓住了女性作为受众群体 是一种商业上的成功 但电影没有夸大 一切是真实的 只是男人看不到或者看到了假装没看到he said the movie has already target some some group like our girls but actually it is all from the reality and.

04:53 男性只能接受完美叙事 而女性却总在自省

我们必须是完美的 不然我就会破防 the weakness of man in this film is unacceptable to him or to every man I find when you show some weakness you find they can never accept it. 女性太善于自省 我们第一次站在聚光灯下拥有发声的权利 试图把真实解剖给大家看 对方却拒绝讨论 我们被疯狂泼冷水 尽管我们是受害者 却没有光环But for our girls ask for ourselves thousands of times we will have done wrong. We want to trigger our awareness of some problems.

06:32 这不是抹黑

So it's not a smear

06:56 前路漫漫

I think this group of people is quite huge and if you want to fix the problem is still a long way to go

07:28 昨晚交换作文练习和首次练雅思听力

yesterday evening I had some practice with my friend and also he he's my senior/ we practice our writing we exchange our writing 哪怕是挚友也会有的尴尬时刻you'LL find an awkward you don't know how to say it you don't know how to express 

Blank moment 

but I think it's quite reasonable and also acceptable because um even you're close friend but you still have to face some awkward moments

听到外国人交谈when I go out I'm waiting for my roommates on waiting for her coming out of from. The library then we could go to the dorm together and about this waiting time I heard of a group of foreigners that chatting at the entrance of our teaching building

11:29 搭讪搭讪我爱搭讪

I find the chatting in French no it's not English it's French and also I have some experience of learning French “我来自法语”So she said she came from the France uh however it should be France really cute mistake

13:32 蠢蠢欲动的内心的声音

you can never neglect your inner voice within your body. 

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I  feel really proud of myself for taking part something for taking out of my comfort zone

14:20 考研横幅无形加剧压力

I have seen some banners in our college 

postgraduate entrance exam

so you can find all of this around us they kept telling you kept to remind you 

so you'pushed to. The huge and anxietytly that is the environment of our East Asia

16:00 你必须一而再再而三地拯救自己 好大的压力啊 你必须允许自己放下一切 在大雨中奔跑 说走就走

16:56 我就是需要来自五湖四海的好多好多朋友

Even if you'are really  a beneficiary but you can still um find yourself in a such a hollow hole 

so long way to go still 

and the second thing I start up a conversation with the foreigners and they think we I'm so cute and they even thought I was from Japan and we have really friendly conversations and I believe that it'is just a a start

learning from different people I think it's really useful for your life for your future