We oftentimes see the analogy that life is like a train. 

We are headed to "a destination", and "people come and go". 

But these are all wrong assumptions about life that potentially insinuate that we cannot assert power over our own life. 

Today I would like to change the narrative. 

Life is a farmland that we maintain; we don't have to have a destination, and we have a say on whom we attract into and expel out of our lives.