Vol.26 从四大Tech咨询到心理咨询,她一直在看见与接纳自我

Echo of Time

嘉宾:Kelly - 双子座ab型INFP,放荡不羁爱自由的猫奴,在绩效至上和标准盛行的咨询行业度过了职业生涯的前七年。试图通过转行寻找人生意义,度过寻常又不寻常的普通留子的青年危机。 / 关于本期: “让我来告诉你,你为什么会来这里。你来这里是因为你领悟来某种东西,某种你无法解释的东西。但是你能感觉到它。这种感觉伴随着你的人生。这个世界一定有什么地方不对劲,尽管你说不上来,但它一定存在,这种感觉就像心头的一根刺,让你寝食难安。就是这种感觉,把你带到我这里来。”——《黑客帝国》 准备写这期的shownotes时突然看到这段话,觉得每一个维度都很搭,或许你听完这期,会有一样的感受。 那么这一期,你将听到: 02:00 开场 & 嘉宾自我介绍 03:02 在英国四大工作的体验 10:47 存在主义危机:当工作的意义被质疑 15:36 审计行业环境现状,稳定性与安全感在消失? 22:12 四大咨询适合什么样的人?给毕业生的建议 32:41 为何选择转行心理咨询? 38:34 在英国成为心理咨询师的路径 01:00:32 东亚女性在英国做心理咨询,文化与身份的影响 01:10:44 内耗的祝福与诅咒:如何解析自我情绪? 01:24:51 “你想要成为怎样的心理咨询师?” / 文案:Echo 剪辑:Dylan 封面:Alex 音乐:Taylor Swift - I can do it with a broken heart 联系微信:echo_yuan 播放平台:小宇宙|Apple Podcast|Spotify|网易云音乐|荔枝|豆瓣|QQ音乐 / 下期见。

92分钟
99+
1周前

为何世界像草台班子?人类愚蠢基本定律解释

Orange AI

* 世界是个草台班子的说法源于对现实的观察,打破了人们对世界的滤镜。 * 意大利经济史学家卡洛·奇波拉的《人类愚蠢基本定律》提供了一个解释框架。 * 奇波拉将人分为:聪明人(利人利己)、恶人(利己害人)、无助者(利人害己)、愚蠢之人(害人害己)。 * 愚蠢之人专门做“损人不利己”的事情,对社会总价值是负贡献。 * 奇波拉定律:每个人都低估了社会中愚蠢之人的数量。 某人愚蠢的概率与其所有其他特征无关。 愚蠢之人是那些在对他人造成损失的同时,自己得不到任何收益,甚至自己也受损的人。 非愚蠢之人总是低估愚蠢之人的破坏性力量。 愚蠢之人比恶人更危险。 * 愚蠢是天生的,与教育、财富、职业、地位无关,愚蠢之人的比例在一个群体中是固定的(σ)。 * 智商高不等于理性决策能力强,聪明人也可能做蠢事(基斯·斯坦诺维奇的观点)。 * 愚蠢之人具有头脑封闭、认知僵化和超级自信的特征。 * 估算认为,每8到10个人里,就有一个愚蠢之人。 * 社会上的严重事故频率比随机性能解释的要多,可能是愚蠢之人造成的。 * 愚蠢之人可能通过关系或支持者的愚蠢进入决策岗位。 * 愚蠢之人比恶人更危险,因为他们没有理性,无法预测和控制,会意外闯祸。 * 系统中有愚蠢之人的存在,虽然让系统笨重,但也使其更稳定,因为无法进行依赖精确博弈的复杂设计。 * 理解“人类愚蠢基本定律”能帮助我们理解世界为何是个草台班子,不会对它的愚蠢感到震惊或苦恼。 * “大棋论”低估了高层的愚蠢程度,政府运作并非全是完美设计。

3分钟
83
1周前

Hydra Effect: Thrive on Chaos and Conquer the Black Swan 💥

观象🐘

Are you living an Anti-Fragile life? Forget mere resilience and throw out the tired idea of "robustness." Those concepts only mean surviving a shock and staying the same. This groundbreaking deep dive reveals the secret philosophy that allows people, organizations, and nature itself to actually benefit from stress, volatility, and disorder. We’re talking about becoming a Hydra, where cutting off one head only causes two stronger ones to grow back. We kick off this essential conversation by exploring the profound realization that half of life has no name—the phenomenon of Antifragility. We dive into why the complexity of the world demands a radical shift in how we approach risk, uncertainty, and decision-making. If you’re tired of chasing stability, prepare to learn why seeking safety often leads to fragility, creating a "time bomb called stability" 💣 that makes systems vulnerable to massive, catastrophic failure. 🚨 Warning: Your Experts Are "Fragilistas"! We challenge the modern obsession with prediction and centralized control. Why do sophisticated modern cultures increasingly build blindness to the mysterious, chaotic elements of life? Because of the Fragilistas! These are the highly educated, suit-and-tie wearing individuals who make you engage in policies where "the benefits are small and visible, and the side effects potentially severe and invisible". Find out why conventional models fail spectacularly in Extremistan (the domain of massive, rare consequences) and why our track record in forecasting significant rare events is essentially zero. We expose the terrifying vulnerability of the Great Turkey Problem 🦃—where history consistently fools us into believing we are safe right before disaster strikes. We argue that the whole mission in life is simply "how not to be a turkey". 🔓 Unlock the Secrets to Gaining from Errors The core of Antifragility lies in finding the fundamental asymmetry. If you have more upside than downside, you automatically benefit from randomness. Discover the proven methods to transform fragile situations into opportunities: 1. The Barbell Strategy 🏋️‍♀️: Learn why mixing extreme safety with extreme speculation is superior to the mediocre, middle-of-the-road approach. We examine why the seemingly prudent path can be the most dangerous—and how to implement the "90 percent accountant, 10 percent rock star" strategy in your own life. 2. Optionality (The Ultimate Weapon) 🎁: Find out why "an option is the weapon of antifragility". Optionality gives you the right to benefit from favorable outcomes without the corresponding serious harm from negative ones—allowing you to be stupid and still do very well. 3. Skin in the Game ⚖️: At its heart, this is an ethical imperative. We look at the malignant transfer of fragility where one party reaps the rewards (like former Treasury Secretary Robert Rubin collecting massive bonuses) while the collective bears the hidden risks. Learn why speculative risk taking is mandatory if you hold a strong opinion—otherwise, your talk is just cheap. We contrast the wisdom of those who live by "deeds" (like Fat Tony, the smeller of fragility 👃) against those who live by "words" (like academics and bureaucrats). This is the battle between the Thalesian (focused on payoff and exposure) and the Aristotelian (focused on truth and falsehood). Tune in to discover how embracing disorder—from noisy cafés to intermittent fasting—is essential for intellectual, biological, and economic success. Stop letting modernity squeeze the vitality out of your life! Chaos isn't something to hide from; it's something to consume. Don't just survive uncertainty—conquer the unseen, the opaque, and the inexplicable. Click subscribe and start leveraging the beautiful power of Antifragility today! 🚀

41分钟
8
1周前
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