157 如何解决男女间“沟而不通”的亲密关系

泛泛而谈FunTalk

“三八”国际妇女节到来之际,我想做一期有意思的选题来迎接这个节日,我回想了一下在日常生活里经常听到女性和男性友人相互吐槽跟自己交往过一段时间的伴侣无法沟通,或者沟而不通——我不确定这种相互的抱怨到底是性别差异导致的,还是价值观导致的,抑或是方法导致的,所以本期播客我再次请到了第144期的嘉宾、NLP心理咨询师、亲密关系导师晶晶,让她跟我们分享如何解决男女间”沟而不通“的亲密关系。如果各位听友觉得晶晶讲得有道理有意思,想跟她做进一步付费情感咨询,也可以查看Reference加她的微信进一步了解。 Timeline 01:31 沟而不通是亲密关系里常见的问题 04:27 沟而不通会出现在男女交往时哪个阶段 07:15 男人为何不愿意处理负面情绪 10:11 不会倾听、不会表达、不会回应、不会提问 15:52 沟通的意愿最重要 21:42 异地恋成立的条件是两人最终要不要同地 23:16 建立高效沟通的方法:事实、前提、目的、情绪 27:00 复述与核实也可以提升沟通 32:21 如何确定沟通效果好不好 37:14 多夸人好处多多利己利他 41:00 沟通的退出机制 43:33 一些伴侣“伪亲密关系”的结局 46:23 “出轨”是从哪一刻开启的 51:38 双人伴侣咨询更容易解决问题 54:17 片尾 Good People By Jack Johnson Reference 嘉宾:晶晶(微信:jinghanchelsea) 即刻&小红书:Leon_FunTalk 加主播微信入听友群:FunTalk2021 邮箱:[email protected]

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【14】东北孩子的噩梦,开化了!再谈冰雪经济~

解毒小甜水儿

PART 1 欢乐尔滨的前世今生 00:28 “开化了”对东北孩子的万点暴击! 02:46 40年,尔滨冰雪节竟然放假! 04:59 20年,冰雪大世界嗨翻严冬! 05:55 多坐两站地,看中国雪雕发源地~ PART 2 冰雪经济概况 07:36 北京冬奥,吹响冰雪经济冲锋号。 08:49 黑龙江,趁势而上遥遥领先。 09:42 亚冬会,金牌奖牌双第一;都灵再战! 11:50 96年亚冬会“背雪上山”,今天亚布力要建机场。 12:54 冰雪经济上游 - 基建先行,通电通路造福一方! 14:58 冰雪经济上游 - 装备很贵,想吸“鸦片”很肉疼。 16:49 举例:大众滑雪装备多少钱? 18:58 冰雪经济中游 - 运营服务,养活一大批人~ 19:32 冰雪经济下游 - 各类消费,好几本账都赚钱! 22:10 冰雪经济整体体量,2700亿到1.5万亿! PART 3 冰雪经济特点、方向 22:52 冬天迎客,开春算账,夏秋正是建设时! 26:51 1、地区上 华北最大,“东进、南展、西扩”! 28:43 “东进”:长三角挑大梁,杭州也有雪场 32:16 “南展”:华中、华南,室内雪场国际领先! 34:29 “西扩”:内蒙、新疆综合建设大有可为! 37:17 2、时间上 四季建设,四季赚钱,别只盯着冬天! 39:45 3、形式上 低空经济、首发经济,新经济相互结合 42:09 4、年龄上 抓住青少年,内蒙特色、北京冰球、黑龙江百万青少年上冰雪~ 46:56 大东北:冰雪经济扳回一城,再度振兴指日可待! 49:19 雪化了,不光东北,全国人民都该忙活起来了!

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BBC随身英语|拉伸:被忽视的健身要素

英音听力|BBC & 经济学人等

Stretching: the overlooked fitness essential Physical fitness is all about cardio exercises and weightlifting… right? If you've ever finished a run and then jumped straight into the rest of your day without stretching, only to wake up the next day feeling stiff and with aching muscles, then listen up. Flexibility plays a big role in our lives – even bending down to pick something up off the floor requires flexibility – but it's often ignored and neglected. So, why and how should we stretch? When athletes stretch, it's not just for show, they do it to prevent injury. A review of research called 'Effects of Stretching on Injury Risk Reduction and Balance' highlighted that stretching not only reduces injury risk by improving the flexibility of the muscles, it also improves balance, which reduces the risk of falls and those associated injuries. Stretching can also help maintain good posture by keeping our muscles long and loose, which is especially important if you spend hours hunched over a desk. In the modern world, many of us spend a large proportion of our days sitting, which can lead to chronic pain, particularly in the neck and shoulders. Stretching can alleviate this tension and boost blood circulation. What's the best way to reap these benefits? While stretching advice varies, the ACSM's Health & Fitness Journal provides guidelines which include stretching the major muscle groups such as the hamstrings and quadriceps at least two or three times per week. A 2017 review of research, published in the Sports Med journal, suggests that dynamic stretches, where you stretch in slow, repeated movements, have greater benefits in a pre-exercise warm-up than static stretches, where you hold a pose. Stretching is better after a quick warm-up because the muscle is more pliable, reducing the risk of muscle strains. Stretching isn't just for athletes and fitness lovers. "Stretching is also an accessible way to unwind and destress during or after a busy day," says Jessica Matthews, professor of kinesiology and author of 'Stretching to Stay Young'. So why not finish the day relaxing in a child's pose, a spinal twist or a happy baby? 词汇表 physical fitness [ˈfɪzɪkl ˈfɪtnəs] 身体素质,身体健康,体能 cardio exercise [ˈkɑːdiəʊ] 有氧运动 weightlifting [ˈweɪtlɪftɪŋ] 举重 stretching [ˈstretʃɪŋ] 拉伸,伸展运动 stiff [stɪf] 僵硬的,不灵活的 aching muscle [ˈeɪkɪŋ] 酸痛的肌肉 flexibility [ˌfleksəˈbɪləti] 柔韧性,灵活性 bend down [ˈbend] 弯腰,俯身 associated [əˈsəʊsieɪtɪd] 相关的,有联系的 posture [ˈpɒstʃə(r)] 姿势,体态 hunch over [ˈhʌntʃ] 弓着背,弯腰驼背 chronic pain [ˈkrɒnɪk] 慢性疼痛 alleviate [əˈliːvieɪt] 减轻,缓解 tension [ˈtenʃn] 紧张,紧绷感 blood circulation [ˌsɜːkjəˈleɪʃn] 血液循环 reap the benefits [ˈriːp] 收获益处,获得好处 ACSM 美国运动医学学会(American College of Sports Medicine) hamstring [ˈhæmstrɪŋ] 腿筋(大腿后侧的肌肉群) quadricep [ˈkwɒdrɪsep] 股四头肌(大腿前侧的肌肉群) dynamic stretch [ˈdaɪnəmɪk] 动态拉伸(即缓慢、重复地进行拉伸动作) pre-exercise warm-up 运动前热身 static stretch [ˈstætɪk] 静态拉伸(即保持一个姿势) pliable [ˈplaɪəbl] 柔韧的,柔韧的,易弯曲的 muscle strain [streɪn] 肌肉拉伤 accessible [əkˈsesəbl] 容易获得的,可行的,容易做到的 unwind [ˌʌnˈwaɪnd] 放松,松弛;解开,松开 destress [ˌdiːˈstres] 缓解压力,消除紧张 kinesiology [kɪˌniːsiˈɒlədʒi] 人体运动学 child's pose 儿童式(瑜伽姿势) spinal twist ['spaɪn(ə)l] 扭脊式(瑜伽姿势) happy baby 快乐婴儿式(瑜伽姿势) 📖 翻译、pdf见公众号【琐简英语】,回复"1"可进【打卡交流群】

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