All ears English: for touchy testy situations use it When people break social norm flipps the table / scripts when do we use excuse you? We use this when a person does sth that is not polite they didn't say excuse me so we use excuse you in this situation （someone you close to）under my breath so they can't hear me especially when sb bumps us pushing back and challenging people across culture might be accepted in their culture we needed to be aware of that not snapping at people mind your manner： ( using for kids) sneezs when they don't cover nose Don't be rude：（super close to sb snappy to you requires some level of intimacy very direct way) Ex: it's not my fault you didn't sent it don't be rude I don't think so( getting testy) Ex: A :you are the one missed the line B:I don't think so, not me What to this expression do? They push back on people they let people know they break some kinda of social norm （a little stress relieve）

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Role play: A: late again,typical lindasay B: oh! don't be rude A: I'm sorry! Ok you paying for the lunch this time B: excuse you，I payed last time A: seriously? I payed pretty much every time A: I don't think so! (because we are close so being unfilter here)

push back on sb反对反驳抵制某人观点