国庆假期回来上班上学不知你们可还适应呀，

没事儿，距离下个长假也就一百来天了哈哈。

国庆档的《找到你》也不知道你们去看了没有……

[ 英文参考 ] 

The movie is about Li Jie, played by Yaochen, who’s a lawyer and a working mother, she’s going through a divorce. She hires a babysitter, Sun Fang, played by Ma Yili, who later kidnapped her daughter.

The three mothers in the film represents three types of women in the society. 

I even felt having a child is the most selfish thing on the planet. It’s using someone else’s life to complete your own. 

我甚至觉得，生孩子是天底下最自私的事情，用别人的生命来完整自己。

 People talk about the nobility of a mother’s love. 

都说母爱是伟大的，（这里的nobility是高尚的意思，不是niubility哈。）

But actually a mother’s love for her child is just bearing the consequences of her won choices. The one who really deserves gratitude is the child.

 但其实，一个母亲对孩子的爱，也只是在对自己的选择承担后果而已。

They help their parents to grow, and for allowing us to feel a completely unencumbered /,ʌnɪn'kʌmbɚd/ love that we would even be willing to die to protect. It’s a kind of freedom.

Encumber是阻碍，拖累的意思。unencumbered也就是毫无阻碍、无戒备的，unencumbered love, 毫无戒备的爱。

最该感谢的是孩子，是他们带父母成长，让我们体验到一种毫无戒备的，甚至可以献出生命的爱，那是一种自由。

Our era demands so much from women. If you choose to become a career woman, some people will say, you neglect your family and are a bad mother.
这个时代对女性要求很高，如果你选择做一个职场女性，会有人说你不顾家庭，是个糟糕的妈妈。

If you choose to become a full-time mother, some people will think having children is a woman’s natural duty, and doesn’t count as a career.
如果你选择成为一个全职妈妈，又有人会觉得生儿育女是女人应尽的本分，不算是一个职业。

The fact is, because I worked hard, I had the right to choose. And because I had a child, I learned the meaning of life. And had the courage to face the hardships of life.
 
但事实却是因为努力工作，我才有了选择的权利，因为有了孩子，我才了解了生命的意义，才有勇气去面对生活的残酷。

Mother Is Superwoman - by Captain Herbert

She hugs me when I am crying
She makes me calm when I am worried
She teaches me when I am asking
She helps me when I am in trouble

She smiles at me even she looks tired
She tells stories even she looks sleepy
She sleeps late and wakes up too early

My mom has full of problems But she always says she's alright
Sometimes she’s frustrated to discipline
But I see her kneeling down to pray for our family

She’s weak but trying to be strong
She has long patience but got angry
She’s all around in cook, laundry, dishwasher, cleaners, everything
She’s superwoman to handle our things to shape and mold us to face world’s reality.

背景音乐：班得瑞--天堂