贝贝耕耘的每片土壤“贝贝双语故事、贝贝书屋”我都有幸踏过，受益匪浅！如今又很荣幸地踏进了“变革阅读”。 好羡慕桉桉能有这样一位优秀的妈妈！ 对于我们这个年龄段的人（1969年生）来说，一出生就很不好意思地被喂养，沟通是“0”，能吃饱就是最大的满足。内心大多时候是空白的、迷茫的、困惑的！在诸多的触碰中成长，没有棱角，只有小心翼翼地求生存！

在教育孩子感觉无所适从的时候，来听贝贝读书，瞬间深受启发！！

比心♥️比心♥️

何其有幸，在育儿路上可以直接学习贝贝的育儿心得、精华！

终于等到了贝贝的播客，贝贝出品，必属精品♥️♥️

贝贝的播客一如既往地润人心脾，净化心灵。我们是不是一生都在和自我对抗，和父母对抗，和原生家庭对抗。通过贝贝知道了这本书，知道了原来父母与子女之间建立起有营养的关系，会滋润我们一生，像土壤滋润植物一样。伴侣之间的关系也是这样。

大爱贝贝姐姐

听过贝贝读书直播之前分享的几本育儿书，本来我觉得已经够用了，但是这本，剑走偏锋，指出育儿不在“育”，在于亲子“关系”，值得深思，细读～

贝贝，听你讲了，我发现之前我没有读懂😂现在又有读的欲望了

英文原文： The core of parenting is the relationship you have with your child. We should not see our babies, children, and teenagers as chores to feed and clean or otherwise fix but as people from the start, people we are going to have lifelong relationships with. This gives us the best chance of making our bonds with them loving and secure. I often see parents thinking they can treat children as things to be efficient about, to deal with and fix. We are creating a person to love, not a work of art. If people were plants, the relationship would be the soil. The relationship supports, nurtures, allows growth—or inhibits it. Without a relationship they can lean on, a child’s sense of their security is compromised. You want the relationship to be a source of strength for your child—and, one day, for their children too.