呵护自己的庄园，吸引同频的朋友🌹

Those who compare life to boarding a train and waiting until the destination may want to point out some passive sad nature of life: one cannot actively decide anything other than the destination at the start of their lifetimes. It is somewhat true itself; but some further interpretations of this idea could lead to two extremes, both are bad. One extreme is that after knowing this some people may have exacerbated anxiety because they feel less controllability over things they want to achieve in their lives. Another extreme is that some people feel it’s better to “lie on one’s back” completely since no control could mean no hope. Your analogy between spending a life and managing a garden rectifies these misunderstandings. The ends of our lives are all about tombs but this fact, definitely, is neither suggesting that we cannot change anything during or after our lifetimes, nor implying that we have to rush towards the destination all the time without rests. I tend to compare life to a voyage (which is more exciting than being a gardener anyways), and during the voyage the transportation way is not limited to merely the train, or the ship, or the vehicle, etc. We can get on and off at any times, make changes to the path, find the right person to meet, etc. It makes me think of the movie, The Legend of 1900, that even staying on a cruise for the whole life can still make a huge difference to the world, see different things, and make people memorize you, if and only if you like it and choose to do it.

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循环播放

09:12 我们可以选择吸引什么样的人（针对assumption2） 07:12 这一段特别喜欢（针对assumption1） 05:55 吸引力法则

07:30 重要的不是去了哪里、经历了什么，而是自我心灵与人格的修炼 有些人可能一辈子没去过什么地方没读什么书，但是心灵还是很美好，比如《人生》里的老汉VS.高加林

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好喜欢这一段😁

这一集的结尾没有，么么哒💋……

这个问题可太好了！人生是什么？